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28-09-2019 12:35 PM
28-09-2019 12:35 PM
Re: R U OK?
@Former-Member
Gardening = 😀
Being intentional making friends = hard work
Sending gentle thoughts your way.
Think of you and yours - wondering if you got new house built.
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03-10-2019 04:32 PM
03-10-2019 04:32 PM
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You sound quite grounded @Former-Member for someone who has been through so much trauma along with loss..
You also sound open to change..
along with having a realistic approach..
Grieving is so very different for each of us...
opening up about your loss on here is hopefully helping that journey..
Chatting to passing neighbours whilst gardening is a lovely way to meet people within the community..
take care
@Former-Member new home not yet finished is at lock up stage now though..
we visit every day and note progress made..
is getting me out of the house as I have been isolating again...
So build has many benefits along with headaches.
paint colours!!!
The walls are starting to resemble murals that have gone wrong..
I have spent so much time on this and husband being picky...so I let him know all up to him..
we now have 3 more sample pots to add to the other multitude..
rainbow walls...
I hope that you and Mr Darcy are both happy where you are..
Sophia 💚
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03-10-2019 06:24 PM
03-10-2019 06:24 PM
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Youre right abour the gardening, I've made 4friends / acquaintances chatting to passing neighbours whilst gardening.
🏠 Are you building a new home? How exciting! When is it expected to be finished - moved in to?
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03-10-2019 06:49 PM
03-10-2019 06:49 PM
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@Former-Member
I have felt so blessed by your presence on the forum. I am so very grateful for the decluttering thread you started - it was such an inspiration and it helped me immensely both practically and psychologically (we now have a declutter-home maintenance thread on the carers side now).
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03-10-2019 09:38 PM
03-10-2019 09:38 PM
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I wish my sister would shelve her stubborn grudge against me. Observers have Observes have said - "ya have to accept that - ya just not good enough for her" But that doesn't make sense to me. One of the last things my sister wrote to me was "you hate me" - which is wrong, big sisters don't hate baby sisters, ever, we, no in my belief system. Why am I talking about sisters,? Sorry. Thanks for encouraging. OP, now I'm crying again. I don't understand anything lol
Hugzz 💙💜💙💜🌷🦉
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03-10-2019 10:49 PM
03-10-2019 10:49 PM
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@Former-Member
I know you understand so very much 😀.
How did you get on with shoulder & teeth? Do you thibk you might do some grief counseling?
Move went OK thanks, house is nicer/in better condition than old place, with opportunity to renovate a little. Hubby is enjoying the newness of a place and organising the various things we are wanting to do about the place. My sister is thinking of getting another dog which I see as a positive.
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03-10-2019 10:58 PM
03-10-2019 10:58 PM
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Glad you like your knew home 💙💜🦉
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11-10-2019 08:55 AM
11-10-2019 08:55 AM
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Checking in @Former-Member
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11-10-2019 09:00 AM
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11-10-2019 09:10 AM
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@Former-Member 😀:ok_hand:🌸