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Would be nice if dealing with banks was a straight forward, easy process.  Sorry to hear things are not going that way for you currently @Dimity 

 

About 3mths ago I started trying to rebuild relationship with 2 specific relatives.  Hoped for mutually built bridges.  Conversations sounded promising.  Last comment came from them both.  Comments that turned out to not be true.   Left me feeling hurt and angry.  2 relatives who, due to their decisions, I no longer have anything to do with.

 

for peace of mind and stress levels, I think at times it’s not worth putting effort into people who don’t want to reciprocate.  My POAs and next of kin, I hear from them twice a year (if I’m lucky).  One of those unpleasant things that happens at times as people get older

 

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Must have been distressing for you with relatives @Patches59 . I'm cut off too.

 

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Not really @Dimity   They made their decision to ghost me.  My decision has been to block them.  

as my therapist has said …. sometimes for one’s own MH and peace of mind need to set boundaries which involves not having certain people in one’s life, regardless of their connection.  

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hey @Dimity @Patches59 i'm heading off soon but i wanted to pop in and say hi!! how are you both going?